** Kandi **

Major, why I love u., Mariah Carey, My All., Tennessee Whiskey, Ed Sheeran., and anything relaxing.. golden oldies

anything w/ Adam Sandler or Drew BarryMoore

Dont Have Time, but if I did it would b GAME SHOWS.

The BIBLE, The LIfe n Death of Charlie St Cloud, & fifty shades of grey.

"Who Dat" SAINTS

So you ask what am i looking for? A real man that never stops trying to show a girl he cares about her, even if he already has her. What i think? People judge too fast, people assume too much. People just need to open up the books and disgard the covers.(looks arent everything) Am I happy you ask? The smile on my face doesn't mean my life is perfect, it just means I appreciate what I have and what God has blessed me with. How I live my life? ?3 C's of Life. ? Choices ? Chances ? Changes ~ You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change. ? If you think I will be an easy Target, remember this isn't my 1st rodeo. ? I've made MISTAKES in my life. I've let people take ADVANTAGE of me, & I accepted way LESS than I DESERVE. But I've LEARNED from my bad choices & even though there are some things I can NEVER get back & people who will NEVER be SORRY, I'll know BETTER next time & I WON'T SETTLE for anything LESS than I deserve?.. THINK YOUR INTERESTED? Than, Tell me some of ur best features that would make me want to get to know u?

(Living the single life isnt actually that bad, its the urge u get of wanting to hold that special someone. I wish someone would prove me wrong, that this isn't a waste of my time. Or should I say there arent any more gud guys out there in this world of nitemares.) I'm not looking for a moocher/loafer if I can get out and work 7 days a week rain or shine or sick or healthy u can do ur part n work atleast 5 days a week. I don't work this much for a man to bank on my dollars. I have kids they r my responsibilty. If ur not grown enough to manage ur own. Go back to ur parents. I'm looking to be the girlfriend/ wife of a gud man, not tryn to b ur moma.

DONT YOU WISH YOU COULD FIND OUT.

There comes a time in a woman's life when she is just tired spiritually.....tired of meaningless sex & so-called relationships, shaded trust, games, and men who try to play my heart against what its worth. I'm tired of relationships that have no merit or value that which a relationship can be built upon. Tired of relationships that have no foundation to stand upon besides sex. Just tired of men who think every woman is out to hurt him as the ones before me. I have no interest in breaking hearts or getting my heart broke because I've been on both sides of the fence when it comes to that. I'm not a hard person to please and the only kinda man that I seek is a man whom knows he can go from bawlin to broke and still knows he will be loved regardless of da situation. No interest in the so-called bad gangtas but major interest in the everyday kinda man. So to cut this intro short......if anything I said interests you then send me a message. A lil convo ain't never hurt anybody :-) (Snapchat-kandialfred)

well im 5'4" hazel/brown eyes which chg colors blonde streaked hair. im a single mother of 2 wonderful kids (Chris 24 he is bi-racial and he is gay) (Makayla 21 both my kids live on their own) i have 3 dogs one chihuahua n 2 rat terriers whom are the light of my eyes) my mom n dad is deceased i have 4 sisters n 1 brother who also is deceased. I own my home its not all that but its a roof over our head keeps us cool during the summer n warm during the winter. I used to work 7 days a week 97 hours weekly until i was involved in a car accident that impaired my walkin I walk now but cant stand or walk for any period of time cuz my lower back feels like its folding n i wanna pass out. Im high maintenance. love to get manicures n pedicures i dont need a man to pay im an independant woman. if u choose to pay its all gud shows how a gentle man u r.. i love to cook especially if i have a man i love cuz im the type to cater to him.. i like to walk in the park chill n his arms watch movies dine out etc.. when i make time..plus u must b worth my time for me to even make time.. if i missed anything just ask.