Keeping A Committed Relationship
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One reason so many relationships involve cheating, lying, and secrets is that the commitments are poorly defined. How will you know if you’re honoring your commitment or not? Be specific. Start by explicitly defining what your commitment looks like. What do you expect of each other? What have you decided to co-create together? Talk about actions, events, feelings, reactions, expectations, and consequences. Step out of the conceptual realm, and move into the world of what’s perceivable. If you’re going to make a commitment, then let it be grounded in reality. Bring it over to this side of the wardrobe. Making a subjective commitment is wonderful. That’s a good start. It’s perfectly fine to begin with abstractions like loving and honoring...Be nice and respectful of other views
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